My oldest daughter got her first cell phone last week and the look on her face was priceless when my wife and I sat her down to give her the news and explain the ground rules and responsibilities. Watching her enjoy her new phone gave me a few thoughts that I thought I would share.
New things are exciting… Phones, Cars, Relationships, etc… I remember recently when we finally ditched the dish and went with Comcast cable. My wife and I were enjoying learning about the new On-Demand features and finding new channels to watch. Does everything fall into that same pattern, is everything in life doomed to have it’s 15 minutes of fame and then fade out into the annals of history like Members Only Jackets and parachute pants. What about God and church life? I think the answer is a great big “NO.”
I think the one main methods you can keep your Faith in God from becoming “the old comfortable shoe” is to not neglect it and to intentionally change some of the practical ways you live it day-to-day, such as prayer time, study time, how you share it with others, etc… When you allow your relationship with Christ to become a routine, you can kiss the excitement goodbye. I know I have allowed it to become that way from time to time and I have to try to snap myself out of the “spiritual coma” that I fall into and wake back up. The same thing would be true if I neglect to talk with my wife and kids on a regular basis, the relationship would suffer.
Another spiritual sleeping pill you can add is the unpopular, new hush word in many churches that nobody wants to hear about anymore, SIN. Sin and or Unforgiveness will do more damage to your relationship with God than anything. When we have unconfessed sin in our life, it blocks the conduits of blessing from God and keeps us from going forward in our relationship with Christ. If we are holding a grudge against a brother or sister in Christ we really need to deal with that first before anything else. Matthew 5:23-24 give us that Biblical model to follow.
Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift. – Matt 5:23-24
In closing would you consider your faith more of a religion than a relationship? Does your faith seem more routine than alive and vibrant? If you answered yes to those questions it might be time to stir some things up and change the way you do things. Ask God if there is anything in your life that is keeping you from enjoying an exciting relationship with Him, I know he will reveal it to you if you ask.